Tuesday, May 22, 2007

It's Tuesday

Okay, so I went to court yesterday and as usual it was postponed. So, I already knew this was going to happen because the prosecutor called my lawyer on Friday to tell him he was asking for a continuance. I showed up and we talked to the judge about the discrepancies between the notes and she had no idea. This is the first time I've been there long enough to even see the judge. I think she was a little surprised to see that this case has been dragging on for 9 months now. She ordered a copy of the transcripts so that next month we will come back to court and get things settled. Well, that's not exactly GREAT for me because I'm SURE that the prosecution will have all his witnesses there and ready to roll in June.

Just to be clear. I got a DUI last september. It was pretty bad. I was in a blackout and I was doing 120 - the last thing I remember is playing the slot machines at the MGM. I don't remember leaving, walking to my car, driving on the highway. I came out of my blackout when I saw the lights in my rear view mirror pulling me over. I've been sober since Jan 1st of this year and I go to meetings just about everyday. Even though I'm doing really well now, I still have a lot of wreckage that I'm dealing with from those months when I was still drinking. I guess I'm just going to have to deal with the consequences of my actions on June 18th when we go back to court. I think it's very reasonable to expect that my case will not be dismissed. My intoxication level was quite high. They took a blood test and I was .20 - that's pretty bad. My lawyer says when you are a .20 or more you have to get a mandatory evaluation from the state to determine if you need extra counseling or whatever.

Anyway, over the weekend I went to the Woman's Spiritual Breakfast at the Wildhorse Country Club in Henderson. My sponsor is on the activities committee so I go to a lot of these functions. It was fun. I haven't been around THAT many women EVER. It was a little overwelming. There were two really good speakers and a very funny comedian. She's in recovery, so she did a lot of jokes about meth heads and crack heads and stoners.

These are my closest friends...



This is Autumn, Hilary and Drew...



A couple more of the girls...



Funny thing about the comedian. We flew her out here for the weekend - paid for her hotel, paid for her flight, gave her a free ticket to the breakfast on Sunday, she only did 20 minutes of comedy out of her 1 hour routine. At the end of the function, she goes up to my sponsor and asks if she can get paid. My sponsor thought she was kidding. She NEVER told them she was charging them - she wanted $500 and she only performed for 20 minutes. They had to scrape together money to pay this woman. I think that is so tacky. She should have told them up front that she was charging. And, if she charges $500 for an hour show, she should have given a discount since she only performed for 20 minutes. Oh well. I guess we won't be asking her to come to Vegas anymore.


Well, tonight is the finale of Dancing with the Stars I think. I tivo'ed it last night and I'll sit down tonight and watch it. Here's hoping Joey wins. I FORGOT to vote last night - dammit. I knew I was forgetting something all night last night I kept thinking I was forgetting something and I couldn't figure out what it was - now I remember. DAMN DAMN DAMN. I really wanted to vote for him.

11 Comments:

Blogger 4dbirds said...

If there wasn't any injuries and little material damage then you'll prolly just pay a lot of money and get a suspended (with work exceptions) license right? You're not looking at jail time are you? I hope not. Anyway, I hope the judge lets you present some mitigating factors like how you're not drinking and trying to be a good citizen.

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger jusdealem said...

Good luck with that, Carmen. I've never had one (knocking wood!), but I know they can get very expensive. Congrats on the sobriety!

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger The Diva's Thoughts said...

I am keeping my fingeres crossed for you regarding this court thing.

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger Special K said...

You've got your court date right in the middle of vacation season. Maybe all the witnesses won't be availalbe. Here's to hope.

Good luck.

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger lj said...

was wondering after yesterday's post what the court date was about, figured since i'm a new reader i missed something from way back. agree w/ 4dbirds, you've got your sobriety going for you (strong mitigating factor), and hopefully if you've got no prior record the judge will go easy and view it as an isolated incident unlikely to occur again. good luck!

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger KajaPoker said...

I finally find out what this court business is all about. I hope you make it through unscathed. I'm also happy that it knocked some sense into you and you are well on your way to recovery.

Do you get to bring any character witnesses? I'm sure there would be a line of bloggers lined up outside the courtroom if it's during the summer broo-haha.

In any case good luck!

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger bayne_s said...

Good luck with case.

More time passing with sobriety may help your case so delays may have a silver lining.

My DUI occured in Maryland and they had the wonderful Probation Before Judgment option. Caught again it was a 2nd offense but insurance company didn't even hear of arrest.

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger Betty said...

I would think the judge would take into consideration that you have done all the right things since your arrest. Sometimes seeing that you're really making an effort really goes a long way. Good luck. I think you deserve a break, if my humble opinion means anything.

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger Jay said...

Okay, so I WAS wondering what the court thing was all about, but it wasn't any of my business so I didn't ask.

I would hope that the judge would take into account all the things you've done over the last 6 months to get right. That might be the good thing that comes from all the delays. You will have these 6 months of proof that you've straitened your life out.

Congrats on getting things together like that!

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger Erica AP said...

Congrats on being sober and I hope everything goes well at court. You seem like a very strong girl and I'm sure they will see that too. :)

May 22, 2007

 
Blogger Double-A said...

You forgot to vote? I guess DWTS isn't that important to you after all. :D

Good luck. Some of us have to learn our lessons the hard way.

May 22, 2007

 

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