Sunday, October 28, 2007

Were we on the same date?

My weekend was busy, they are usually always busy, but I really enjoyed this one. I kind of kicked back and did what I wanted to do.

I went to a meeting with my friend Sari on Friday night and then we had dinner at the Elephant Bar in Henderson at the District. It wasn't bad, cool atmosphere and the menu was great.

Saturday was FUN - I went to the MGM and played poker. I think I got there around 4 in the afternoon, and I finally left around 2:30 in the morning, so yes, I clocked about 10 and a half hours at the table. My most memorable hand was when I picked up pocket aces under the gun. I raised it to $15, the guy in the 4 seat smooth calls and the guy in the 7 seat raises it to $50. I shove all-in for $200, the 4 seat folds and the 7 seat calls. He has Kings, my Aces hold up and I get his stack. Here's the best part, the guy in the 4 seat had pocked queens and a queen came on the turn - thank god he folded!!!!!

I definitely had a winning session, and I had one of those great tables where people are friendly and talking and drinking! I love it when the drunks are loose and aggressive at my table, I just wait and wait and wait and then I trap them. The funny thing is that they totally don't pay attention, so I always get action even when I have the nuts. I can play conservative as hell, I can play one hand an hour, but I'll still get action when I raise. Alcohol is great in that way. Oh, there was even a guy selling ecstacy at my table - no joke!

It was Halloween weekend at the MGM AND Jimmy Buffet was playing in the Grand Garden Arena. So, I'm sure you can imagine that there was a lot of action going on. When I wasn't in a hand, I had plenty of sights to see. Everyone was dressed up in costume and some of them were truly unique. I saw Oh No Mr. Bill!, a Banana, tons of slutty Little Red Robin Hoods, French Maids, Nurses, Hookers (which may or not have been a halloween costume) and of course the Parrotheads and grass skirts for Buffet.

So, I sat next to my buddy, Kirk from the MGM. Him and I met about 6 months ago when the bloggers were here for the Summer WPBT. Waffles will remember him the most because he kept calling him Flapjack, French Toast and Pancakes. Anyway, he's been wanting to take me out for a while, but I was dating the Drama Queen so it never happened, until today...

Today, I finally caved in after 6 months of flirting and sexual tension at the poker table, I went to the movies with him. We saw "We Own The Night" with Mark Wahlberg and Joaquin Phoenix. Good movie!! I really liked it. I am a HUGE fan of Mark Wahlberg, I always have been, but in this movie I was actually enjoying Phoenix's character more. They are both great actors.

So, that's the best thing I have to say about the date. I got a free movie. Other than that, I'm just not feeling this guy. He's witty and fun at the poker table, but one one one, he's lame! I don't know what the problem is, but I couldn't find anything to talk to him about, he was really defensive when I tried to make conversation, he's like too quiet or something, I can't read him and worst of all, he has a REAL problem keeping his hands to himself. If you can't find anything to talk to me about, don't make up for it with roaming hands. Not cool!!

How can someone be so charming at the poker table and then be so boring out on a date? And, it's not like he was nervous, cause he wasn't. I just think maybe we don't have anything in common except poker. He's another one that "plays poker for a living" - yeah, he's doing SO well playing for a living that he doesn't even have a car and he's like 36 years old. Huge turnoff. I mean, I'm definitely not a gold digger, but I don't think it's asking too much for me to date someone that has a car, a house, a job and maybe some goals. I mean, is that really asking too much??? Apparently out here in Vegas it is. I have to stop meeting guys at NA Meetings and the Poker Room.

I find it so odd that we are on such different pages. Because, when I dropped him off and I thought it was fairly obvious that the date wasn't going anywhere and we probably wouldn't go out again, he actually asked me if I wanted to spend the night one night this week. Um are you kidding me? I coúldn't wait to get him out of my car, why would I spend the night? Um, were we even on the same date?

Oh well, I guess I'm just keeping the path free for Mr. Right to come along...

18 Comments:

Blogger Terri said...

Carmen, I think we can all agree about this.....Kirk had one thing on his mind the whole night. I'd say keep looking for Mr. Right 'cause he's not it!

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Karen said...

I have had that feeling like we were not on the same date thing happen to me also. Some pepole just must be clueless.

I keep telling myself that Mr. Right will come along eventually. And in the mean time we can get some funny stories to blog about from the wrong ones.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger RockDog said...

At least you got to see a good movie!

Have a good week!

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger "The Rake" said...

Some guys just can't see the real world.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger 6722 said...

do what I did...for unconditional love, get a dog or cat :-). can't beat those wet licks.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger B-Rad said...

My wife and I wondered about the Elephant Bar when we stayed at GVR a few months ago. Sounds like we didn't miss anything by not going. Thanks for continuing to give us the scoop. I can't wait for my next trip to Vegas.

At the risk of being to personal, can I chime in on the dating advice from a guy's view? I have plenty of guy friends in their late 20s/early 30s that are dating and I notice some things.

Terri is right...the guy couldn't come up with decent conversation because his mind was single tracked. It's unfortunate for us guys that we only have enough blood in our body to support our brain or our privates. When all the blood rushes to the brain, the privates don't work, and when all the blood rushes to the privates, the brain doesn't work. It's a curse.

There's no casinos here, but it seems to me that you could meet a good guy in a casino and have some fun dates, but any guy you would want to be with long term would have figured out by now that the smart money comes from working there and not playing there.

If a guy can't tell you what he does for a living in three word or less (police officer, investment banker, bus driver, construction worker, trial lawyer, etc) he doesn't have a real job.

Engineers or corporate financial guys make good money by their mid-20s and are upwardly mobile. The jobs are boring, so you have to judge them by their life outside work. Most of the financial guys I've met are confident and need a decent personality to move up, and appearance counts so they tend to dress well and take care of themselves.

That's just some of my thoughts. Better luck with the next guy!

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Mesquiter said...

I agree with rockdog, at least you got to see a good movie. I've been on a few dates like that myself and from a guy's point of view, at least I got to pay for two people to see a good movie.

Why don't you tell us what is your ideal profile for your Mr. Right? Maybe some of us qualify ... or we can help you find him :-)

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Jay said...

"I have to stop meeting guys at NA Meetings and the Poker Room."

I swear you should get T-shirts with that saying on them and sell them. You'd make a fortune in Vegas alone. hahahaha

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger qofd said...

I don't know if I'm more jealous that you got to see Jimmy Buffet or that you actually saw someone dress up as Mr. Bill. That had to have been one of the greatest costumes ever.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger jusdealem said...

I totally agree with Jay about the t-shirts. LOL

Sorry it didn't work out. Some men are so clueless, he is definetly one of them.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger pokerpeaker said...

Sorry it didn't work out with that guy. He's VERY grabby, I agree. Tell him to follow the Georgia Satelite's advice! Good session at MGM though!

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Buddy Dank said...

Don't worry. Mr Right will be in Vegas for the blogger gathering. I'm working on the name change right now!

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Astin said...

Goals? You want someone with goals? Girl, why you gotta have such high standards? :)

Yah, 36 and without any serious material possessions (unless he's a hippie) is a bit of an alarm bell methinks. I'm sure he has a really nice poker set though.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger CzechRazor said...

And that post right there sums up how men and women can be right next to each other and miles apart at the same time.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger RaisingCayne said...

Schmuck plays poker for a "living," but can't get a "read" on a date!??? What a tool! Not much for picking up on "tells" is he?! Stay friends, so you at least know when his dead money is on the tables!

And don't worry about actively seeking out your Mr. Right. The more content one is with their own company, the easier it is and better one is at recognizing what he/she wants in another person.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Mel said...

BOO to roaming hands! There is nothing worse....

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Blonde said...

I prefer to have Mr. Right Now then Mr. Right. Men are so strange...

I MISS YOU GIRL!!! I still have to book my ticket for next month.

October 29, 2007

 
Blogger Heather said...

"If a guy can't tell you what he does for a living in three word or less (police officer, investment banker, bus driver, construction worker, trial lawyer, etc) he doesn't have a real job."

That's a GREAT point that b-rad made!!! *Hmmm*

Oh-no-Mr.Bill!!! That is awesome! I saw a banana costume this year, too. They're kinda cool, I think! lol.

Oh, and my friend was out the other night and saw a tranny dressed up like Santa or something and she said to the girl he was with, "What are you supposed to be" and said she looked like Elvira but the girl was like, "I'm not dressed up" HAHAHAHA

November 02, 2007

 

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